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– Furniture and personal property disputes are a surprisingly common reason real estate transactions fall apart, even when both parties want the deal to close
– Sellers should decide before listing exactly what stays, what goes, and what has a price attached to it
– Any exchange of money for personal belongings should happen completely outside the real estate transaction to protect the deal
There is a moment in real estate transactions that Margot Skelley has seen more times than she cares to count. The inspection is done, the financing is in place, closing day is close, and then something completely unexpected threatens to unravel everything. Not a title issue. Not a structural problem. Furniture.
“We transfer real estate,” Margot says plainly. “We don’t transfer furniture.”
It sounds simple. In practice, it is anything but. Margot Skelley represents luxury waterfront homes in Lake Winnipesaukee communities like Wolfeboro, Tuftonboro, and New Durham, and she has watched personal property disputes turn smooth transactions into emotionally charged standoffs. The frustrating part, she notes, is that the items causing all the trouble are rarely things either party truly wants.
Lakefront properties in the Lakes Region often carry decades of history. A family camp passed down through generations might have old paint cans in the basement, a collection of mismatched dishes, vintage outdoor furniture, and boxes of things that have simply accumulated over the years. When a seller lists a home, those items are still there. When a buyer goes under contract, the question of what happens to all of it is sometimes left unanswered until the worst possible moment.
Margot has a standard contract language she relies on to address this directly. Her language specifies that the seller may leave any and all furnishings as a convenience to the seller, at no additional expense to the buyer. The intent is to give sellers a clean exit from items they do not want to move, while making clear to buyers that they are not paying for any of it.
The trouble comes when a seller decides partway through the process that certain items actually do have value, or when old belongings that nobody claimed as important suddenly become a negotiating point. A set of china. A collection that has been in the family for generations. Things that carry enormous sentimental weight for one person and virtually none for another.
“A piece of something that has huge sentimental value to one person doesn’t to another,” Margot explains. “And so that can already make an emotional situation more emotional.”
Margot Skelley specializes in high-end lakefront estates, seasonal properties, and vacation homes with water access and dock rights, and the emotional dimension of these sales is always present. Buyers and sellers are not just exchanging a piece of real estate. They are often negotiating the end of one family’s chapter at a beloved lake house and the beginning of another’s.
Adding a financial dispute over furniture into that mix creates a combustible situation. If a seller wants compensation for personal belongings, Margot is clear on what needs to happen. That conversation has to take place entirely outside of the real estate transaction. A separate bill of sale, handled between the parties directly, keeps the deal protected and the closing on track.
“Make sure it is something that is handled outside of your transaction,” she advises, “because it can really make things go from zero to hero very quickly.”
That phrase, zero to hero, carries a specific meaning here. A deal that looks like it might fall apart over a disagreement about leftover belongings can be saved quickly once the personal property question is separated from the real estate question. But if it gets tangled into the contract, into the price, into the emotions of closing day, it can just as quickly derail everything.
Margot Skelley leverages nine years of experience with New Hampshire’s top-performing real estate team to guide clients through Lakes Region transactions, and the guidance she gives sellers on this topic is consistent. Before the listing goes live, get exceptionally clear about three things: what you are taking with you, what you are leaving behind as a courtesy, and what you believe has monetary value that you want compensated for.
Clarity at the beginning prevents conflict at the end. That is the whole lesson.
Yes, but the terms need to be explicitly clear in the contract. Margot recommends specifying that any furnishings left behind are a convenience to the seller and come at no additional cost to the buyer. If a seller wants payment for specific items, that exchange should happen in a separate agreement entirely outside the real estate transaction.
It can threaten the deal. When sellers and buyers disagree about furniture or belongings late in the transaction, it introduces emotional and financial friction at the moment when everyone should be focused on closing. Resolving these questions early, ideally before an offer is even accepted, is the cleanest path forward.
Seasonal and vacation homes often carry years of accumulated belongings, family collections, and sentimental items that do not come up in everyday residential sales. When a lake house has been in a family for a long time, determining what leaves and what stays can feel surprisingly complicated. Working with an agent who understands those dynamics from the start helps prevent small disagreements from becoming real problems.
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